Saturday, March 14, 2009

Negative Thinkers

You've got to really put some effort into trying to make me angry to get me mad; I can't remember the last time I was furious.  But when people are blatantly rude, vulgar, or completely inconsiderate towards another person, I can't help but get angry towards them.  I can understand being mad or sad with something going on in someones personal life, or even just having a bad day, but when they begin to take out those feelings on others that they surround themselves with or just random people, that's when they cross the line.  I have absolutely no respect for someone like this and cannot be around them.  
These people are what I and some others like to call, "Negative Thinkers".  The only things that come out of their mouths are negative thoughts and negative ideas.  Being around a negative thinker is difficult, because they're unconciously trying to bring you down to their level.  The only way to fight back with a negative thinker is with positive thoughts and positive self talk.  Believing the negative thinker only hurts you.  You must learn to ignore the negatives and replace them with positives.  
Negative people want others around them to feel the same way they are feeling; they want sympathy or empathy.  They don't want a resolution to their problems, they want others to feel their pain.  Don't let Negative thinkers hold you back.  They want you to stumble, they want you to fail.  Don't give them the satisfaction.  

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